Episode 109
Finding Time to Write in a Busy World
In the Writing Momentum Podcast, Christopher Maselli and his wife, Gena, share practical tips for finding time to write in a busy world. With over 30 years of writing experience, they tackle the challenge many writers face - finding time to pursue their passion amid various life commitments. They suggest keeping a reminder of your writing vision in front of you, scheduling your writing time, employing the Pomodoro technique, using deadlines, and adopting habit stacking where writing is added to an existing routine. They elaborate that consistency is key and even short bursts of writing can lead to a complete manuscript over time. They also encourage listeners to share and subscribe to their podcast for more insightful content.
- 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and the Topic
- 00:14 The Challenge of Finding Time to Write
- 02:47 The Importance of Keeping the Vision
- 05:57 The Power of Deadlines
- 08:45 The Strategy of Time Blocking
- 11:05 The Pomodoro Technique
- 12:44 Habit Stacking for Writing
- 15:17 Recap and Conclusion
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Transcript
How can you find time to write in today's busy world?
Speaker:Hey, we can help with that.
Speaker:Hello and welcome to the Writing Momentum Podcast.
Speaker:I'm Christopher Maselli, I'm here with my wife, Gena.
Speaker:How are you doing, Gena?
Speaker:I'm doing good.
Speaker:I'm doing really well.
Speaker:Hey, you ought to be doing well because today we're going to talk
Speaker:about a subject that is, I think, dear to both of our hearts because
Speaker:we've been writing for over 30 years.
Speaker:I feel old now.
Speaker:That's where the gray hair comes from.
Speaker:And one of the things that we've had to do over the years is find ways
Speaker:that we can find time to write because this is a busy world, isn't it?
Speaker:It's very busy.
Speaker:I think a lot of people find themselves just pulled in so
Speaker:many different directions.
Speaker:They have something on their heart that they want to write.
Speaker:They have an idea that they want to write or they feel like they've got a book
Speaker:that would help their business even but finding the time to write is the biggest
Speaker:obstacle that people have to overcome.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And it's easy to say, Oh if it's important enough to you, you'll do it.
Speaker:But the truth is in today's world, I think everything feels important, right?
Speaker:And so it's very hard to say it's not your number one priority because for
Speaker:a lot of us it is it's just that there are so many high priorities in our
Speaker:lives, it's just hard to find time.
Speaker:And I think that's it.
Speaker:For me sometimes it's the fact that there seems to be so much noise
Speaker:There's so many things grabbing for my attention and they're important
Speaker:things, this doesn't mean that these are just throw away things that it's
Speaker:Oh, if I were just more organized, I wouldn't have to deal with that.
Speaker:No These are real life things.
Speaker:This is a real life obstacle.
Speaker:And I think, honestly, that's why we find that in the writing world, so many
Speaker:people start writing later in life.
Speaker:They start after their children leave.
Speaker:They start and they're empty nesters.
Speaker:They start maybe when they're starting that second phase of life.
Speaker:And They also have something to say.
Speaker:I think there's something that happens as you get older, you've got more wisdom
Speaker:and more perspective and more to say, but I think there's also that they'll, their
Speaker:life kind of calms down a little bit.
Speaker:And maybe and yet a lot of them will tell you that, boy, they feel like they're
Speaker:volunteering at more places and doing more stuff and taking care of grandkids.
Speaker:It's, everyone's got things that they've got to do, but there are techniques
Speaker:that we have found, that really help us actually find time to get our writing
Speaker:done because we do this full time and believe me when I say there's a lot going
Speaker:on in our lives and so we have to find time to get our writing done and not
Speaker:just our writing for our business, but also our personal stuff that we want to
Speaker:write, that we want to get out there.
Speaker:So Gena, what would you say is one of the ways that you find times to write?
Speaker:I think one of the big things is keeping the vision before you.
Speaker:And I think that's, I know that can seem, maybe more ethereal, but I think
Speaker:having that in front of you so that it doesn't get lost in all of that
Speaker:noise of all these other commitments.
Speaker:And that can happen from putting even just a little post it note that you put on your
Speaker:mirror in the morning so that you see it.
Speaker:You know, have you written today?
Speaker:It could be putting a reminder on your phone or on, put that post it note on
Speaker:your refrigerator or someplace where you go to on your desk, maybe in the corner
Speaker:of your monitor or something like that.
Speaker:I just think there's something about keeping the vision before you that
Speaker:is really motivating for people.
Speaker:And it helps them be motivated to find time to write.
Speaker:Yeah, that's just the thing.
Speaker:A lot of times we get so busy.
Speaker:That, even though we want to write, other things take priority, and
Speaker:the writing, that idea of writing slips out of our mind, because
Speaker:everything else takes its place.
Speaker:What's important to do is keep the vision before you, by
Speaker:literally keeping it before you.
Speaker:Write it down, even if it's on a post it note.
Speaker:Don't forget to write today!
Speaker:Or take a famous quote by someone who has about writing or something, put that
Speaker:on your wallpaper, on your computer, put something on your refrigerator, put
Speaker:that vision up before you so that every time you see it, your mind's going,
Speaker:Oh, I got to remember to write today.
Speaker:And there is something about that just helps you remember and helps
Speaker:you feel, compelled to do it.
Speaker:Now that doesn't mean that you may do it every day just from that one
Speaker:technique alone, but it keeps it in front of your eyes so that it's on your
Speaker:mind at least a little bit every day.
Speaker:And I think that's what we have found over the years is that sometimes
Speaker:just by keeping things on your mind, that makes a big difference.
Speaker:I think that's true.
Speaker:And I think also, when you're talking about that vision, it isn't just like
Speaker:finding time to write today, but remind yourself also, in addition to that,
Speaker:finding reminding yourself of what you're doing or why you're doing it.
Speaker:Why you're doing it, yeah.
Speaker:Are you writing because maybe you're writing your memoir
Speaker:for your family members.
Speaker:Let me tell you, I have friends who received that from their parents and
Speaker:what a precious gift to give them.
Speaker:If that's what people have, that's, if that's what's motivating you
Speaker:or that's your why, then do that.
Speaker:But it also could be, you may be in a business.
Speaker:Or in a field that you've got some real experience and some
Speaker:knowledge that you need to share.
Speaker:Having that why, that, you know what, this could really help people.
Speaker:This could really make a difference.
Speaker:But even if it's just something simple and it's for you, recognize that this is maybe
Speaker:something that's just on your bucket list.
Speaker:And so for you, it's not just remember to write today, but
Speaker:it is what is that vision?
Speaker:You are an author.
Speaker:You are, your series is almost done.
Speaker:Something like that, just to keep that emotional connection in the vision.
Speaker:Yeah, that's good.
Speaker:Another way that you can find time to write is by giving yourself a deadline.
Speaker:That will force you to find time to write.
Speaker:Now I actually find that giving myself a deadline doesn't work very well.
Speaker:So I will ask other people to give me a deadline if I ever get a project from an
Speaker:editor, one of the first things I ask them is what would you like the deadline to be?
Speaker:I want them to give me a deadline because I've had editors before who say, oh, go
Speaker:ahead and just send things in when you can and what happens is I keep pushing it off.
Speaker:It's too easy to not do it.
Speaker:So you always want to have a deadline when something needs to be done.
Speaker:Find someone to be accountable to and that works miracles.
Speaker:I think that's true.
Speaker:I think that's where you can find that deadline where you maybe even have a
Speaker:writing buddy that you're like, we're gonna hold each other accountable.
Speaker:I'm going to be asking you, where is this?
Speaker:You're going to be asking me that kind of thing.
Speaker:Having that writing coaching finding a coach that will help you
Speaker:so that every time that you meet together, you've got to have so many
Speaker:words written, that kind of thing.
Speaker:It's just really valuable.
Speaker:Or even, a group, a writing group that you could be a part of.
Speaker:We have one.
Speaker:I was just thinking, you know what, we have a writing group.
Speaker:It's called writing moments.
Speaker:And if you go to writing momentum.
Speaker:com slash writing moments, you can find out about our writing group.
Speaker:And what it is we get together every Wednesday at noon central
Speaker:and we write together for an hour.
Speaker:But these are a group of people who are very dedicated to
Speaker:getting their writing done.
Speaker:And if you need to find a buddy, come join us and you can hit someone up
Speaker:and say, Hey, we want to just keep each other accountable for our, the
Speaker:next chapter we each have to write and you will definitely find someone.
Speaker:So that's a great way to keep yourself motivated.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:And we've got people in that group who have said, I got my writing done.
Speaker:I got my book finished, because I knew that every Wednesday I was
Speaker:going to show up here and then they would write throughout the week.
Speaker:They would maybe find another time or two to write and these
Speaker:are not people who are not busy.
Speaker:This is you know, one person that I'm thinking of was a man who has a family.
Speaker:He's got a young family.
Speaker:He's got a full time job, but during his lunchtime, his lunch break on
Speaker:Wednesdays, he would make sure to check in with us and he would write together.
Speaker:And so one of his first books was finished during writing moments.
Speaker:So that was, it's not just for the people who have all the time in the world.
Speaker:These are, a lot of them are people who have full time jobs that are
Speaker:showing up and logging in to write with us during their lunch hours.
Speaker:100%.
Speaker:So give yourself a deadline like that.
Speaker:Find someone who can help give you a deadline.
Speaker:We'll help keep you accountable too because we want you
Speaker:to get your things done.
Speaker:What else, Gena?
Speaker:Alright, so the next one is something that the technical term is time blocking.
Speaker:That's what a lot of motivational speakers will talk about.
Speaker:Productivity experts will talk about, they talk about time blocking.
Speaker:For me, that is really, it's about pre-planning that I know I, my
Speaker:week and my mental space is in such better condition when I take
Speaker:time at the beginning of my week.
Speaker:And I, a lot of times I do it on Sunday afternoons where I will plan out my
Speaker:week and I will look at what's coming.
Speaker:What time do I have?
Speaker:And I can blog those days and times in to my schedule at the beginning that I know
Speaker:during that day I'm going to sit down and I'm going to write, I'm going to take 30
Speaker:minutes, an hour to work on this or on that and that is so, so powerful, I think.
Speaker:What you just said is really, it's scheduling.
Speaker:It's scheduling writing on your calendar.
Speaker:A lot of people who come to our writing moments, they've told us that what
Speaker:works about it for them is that they know every Wednesday at noon, that's
Speaker:the time they're going to write.
Speaker:And a lot of times, that may be the only time during the week they
Speaker:write because they're so busy, but they have it scheduled and
Speaker:so they make sure and make it.
Speaker:And you'd be surprised if you write just a little bit every day or every week.
Speaker:Soon you will have a large manuscript done, right?
Speaker:It just, it takes time.
Speaker:It takes time, but if you, stick with it, it's that consistency
Speaker:that makes all the difference.
Speaker:So absolutely schedule your writing.
Speaker:Even if you just need to say, you know what, I'm going to go ahead and just,
Speaker:I'm going to put it on my calendar at 11 o'clock at night from 11 to 12.
Speaker:That's when I'm going to do it, right?
Speaker:Whatever works for you, five in the morning, if that works for you.
Speaker:Find a time that you can write, put it on your calendar, and then treat
Speaker:it like a doctor's appointment, right?
Speaker:This is something you're not going to miss.
Speaker:I'm gonna make that time.
Speaker:I'm gonna sit down, butt in chair, and I'm gonna work on my
Speaker:writing and get some things done.
Speaker:Yes, and it doesn't have to be, that's the thing is it's,
Speaker:you said 30 minutes, an hour.
Speaker:It doesn't have to be a full day.
Speaker:None of us have a full day to sit down and write, or I would say
Speaker:probably 99 percent of us don't.
Speaker:It's those small little bits that kind of add up over time.
Speaker:Speaking of small bits, one of my favorite techniques to use for this is
Speaker:called the Pomodoro technique, and we talked about this quite a while ago.
Speaker:You can search for Pomodoro if you want to get a full insight into what it is, but
Speaker:essentially it's writing for 45 minutes taking a 15 minute break and writing again
Speaker:for another 45 minutes and in keeping that cycle going and if you listen to that
Speaker:episode, you'll find that we have some scientific quotes and proof about this.
Speaker:It works really well.
Speaker:I love using the Pomodoro technique because for me, when my day is tight,
Speaker:it helps me find time to write because I know if I can just book that 45
Speaker:minutes to get that writing done, it will, it helps me get through it.
Speaker:And sometimes when I have a big deadline, I'll put on my calendar, I'll time block
Speaker:out three or four Pomodoro sessions.
Speaker:And scheduling those Pomodoro sessions, that's what makes all the difference.
Speaker:It really does.
Speaker:It really does.
Speaker:And you think, oh, I gotta sit down and write.
Speaker:I need to sit down and write.
Speaker:I need to sit.
Speaker:That's what's playing through your mind.
Speaker:But when you think, okay, I'm gonna pre plan it.
Speaker:So that I've got on this day, I'm going to take 45 minutes and I'm just going
Speaker:to sit down and that's all I'm going to do and I'm going to count it as a
Speaker:successful writing day, making that mental shift, not, Oh, I didn't, I only
Speaker:wrote for 45 minutes, change it and say, no, I got to write for 45 minutes.
Speaker:I did it.
Speaker:Boom.
Speaker:And it goes by fast.
Speaker:And it goes by very fast.
Speaker:So it's not like you're going to find yourself trudging through it.
Speaker:You're going to find, Hey, this works.
Speaker:So if nothing else, even if you don't know exactly where you're going to move
Speaker:next, Sit down in your chair, start writing and just see what happens.
Speaker:Yeah, absolutely.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So our final tip today for finding time to write is something called habit stacking.
Speaker:And this is another great tech productivity tip that you can use
Speaker:and strategy that you can use.
Speaker:And it also works for writing.
Speaker:And that is if you already have, and you do.
Speaker:You already have habits in your life.
Speaker:I know Chris is very dedicated to his morning routine.
Speaker:He has a morning routine that he keeps and he goes through
Speaker:probably three or four different things every morning that you do.
Speaker:And what you will do is with habit stacking, you will take something
Speaker:that you are already accustomed to doing, it's already a habit, and you
Speaker:will just add your writing to that.
Speaker:Add your writing to that.
Speaker:So It might be, imagine you know what, every day during my lunch break, I sit at
Speaker:my desk and I eat my sandwich at my desk.
Speaker:Maybe you work in an office and that's what you do.
Speaker:So instead, what you're going to say is I know I'm already going to do that.
Speaker:So during a portion of that lunch hour, I'm just going to open
Speaker:my computer and start writing.
Speaker:And that's going to be my writing because you're already going to be there.
Speaker:You already know you can expect it.
Speaker:Your mind is already set that it's a regular thing that you do.
Speaker:So you're just, no, I'm going to do this and I'm going to finish a certain
Speaker:amount of writing before I move on to what the next step in my day is.
Speaker:Yeah, if you wake up every day and you read for 15 20 minutes, why
Speaker:not have it stack on top of that?
Speaker:I'm also going to journal for 15 minutes, right?
Speaker:And because your mind is already implanted with that idea that I'm going to be in
Speaker:this chair reading anyway, it becomes a natural extension of what you're doing.
Speaker:And that's a way to get journaling done, if you are wanting to journal, or you can
Speaker:make it writing time if you want to write.
Speaker:I love your idea of when you're, even if you're at work and you're eating
Speaker:something at your desk, you can say, you know what, every Wednesday
Speaker:when I eat at my desk, I want to go ahead and do a little writing here.
Speaker:Or it could be another time during the day.
Speaker:Whenever you want to do it, you want to habit stack the one habit
Speaker:you already have with another one that you're wanting to build.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:That's so good.
Speaker:And like I said, it doesn't have to be these long four or five hour stretches.
Speaker:It doesn't have to be a whole day set aside.
Speaker:These are just little incremental bits of time that you have that really add
Speaker:up into helping you produce a full manuscript or a regular blog posts
Speaker:or journal entries, just whatever.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Hey, if this helped, we want to hear about it.
Speaker:Gena, why don't you go ahead and go through the points we made
Speaker:and then we'll bring it home.
Speaker:We gave you five techniques today for getting your writing done.
Speaker:And so the first one was keeping that vision in front of you.
Speaker:This is not a the, Chris talked about the button chair.
Speaker:That's not what this is.
Speaker:This is about helping your mindset about keeping that vision of what
Speaker:you're going to do and really thinking not just about the physical.
Speaker:I'm going to write a book.
Speaker:But about the, maybe the more emotional connection for you or for your readers.
Speaker:So keep that vision in front of you.
Speaker:And then also give yourself a deadline.
Speaker:Give yourself a deadline and from our experience it helps to have an
Speaker:outside deadline from someone else.
Speaker:If we try to keep it ourselves, if Chris and I try to keep a deadline for one
Speaker:another, It's not as effective as somebody on the outside keeping it for you.
Speaker:Definitely look at that, find a writing buddy and or ask your
Speaker:editor or maybe your writing group.
Speaker:Find someone to help you create that deadline.
Speaker:Then number three was pre planning or time blocking it in your calendar.
Speaker:It's really about scheduling.
Speaker:Getting it scheduled before your week even starts so that
Speaker:you know on Monday, if you can.
Speaker:On Monday, I know that on Wednesday, I'm going to join Chris and Gena for
Speaker:writing moments, or on Thursday, I'm going to write at my desk during lunch,
Speaker:or I'm going to do this while I drop my kids off at soccer, I'm going to
Speaker:bring my computer and I'm going to write in my car for a few minutes.
Speaker:Whatever that is, just go ahead and schedule it ahead of time.
Speaker:Then number four, was using the Pomodoro technique, it's really
Speaker:that writing for 45 minutes and then giving yourself a 15 minute break.
Speaker:Writing for 45 minutes, giving yourself a 15 minute break.
Speaker:However that looks for you it is a proven technique, productivity technique
Speaker:for getting really anything done.
Speaker:And then our final one is habit stacking.
Speaker:Think of something that you already do, that is already a habit, that you are
Speaker:already in the habit of doing it, and then just add your writing onto that.
Speaker:If it's like Chris said, reading a book in the morning for 15 minutes
Speaker:before you get out of bed, maybe the next thing you do is you journal.
Speaker:Or maybe you know you're gonna eat at your desk on a certain date, so you know
Speaker:that before you get up, you're gonna sit there and write for so many minutes.
Speaker:It's just stacking this new habit of writing on top of one that already exists.
Speaker:That's good stuff.
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Speaker:And meanwhile, we're gonna be here again next Wednesday, and
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